Wow....what a ride it has been. I felt a little sad when the Masterclass ended. With all of us living busy lives I knew it would be very unlikely that our whole group would be able to meet up again. I have formed friendships with guys who are on exactly the same path as me. I hope these last a long time.
I will miss the coaches. (James, Shae, Tim and Jess ....along with Liam and Damien the assistant coaches). They are some of the nicest and most genuine people I have ever met. Not only do I see them as coaches but as friends.
Its been an incredible journey for me. Looking back I am so glad I took the Masterclass. Everyone has taken something away from it. Part of this weeks class involved each of us giving a short speech on our journey. Every single person in the Masterclass had an amazing time and had an enormous amount of success in all areas of their life...from business to relationships with women to relationships with social circles and family. To fully understand this you would had to have been in the room tonight to feel that energy.
In regards to myself....
I look at the world differently now. During my speech I was asked "What changes have you noticed?" For me almost everything has changed, but in saying that I should note that 80% of this change has been internal. I see myself as a creator of my own story, someone who creates his own reality. Over the past 12 weeks I have been living this new reality and have met some amazing women. I see possibilities in front of me that I never saw before. The Masterclass has helped give me a road map for how I want to live my life.
Another benefit of the Masterclass is the written notes. I now have a large folder filled with tools to help me as I progress through life. From conversational frameworks to help with women to visualizations to help with setting goals...its all there.
I have learnt so much in the past 12 weeks.
I'm only 19....the future is very bright indeed.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Week 11 - Relationships
Possibly the most important session of the Masterclass.
Its all about managing yourself and your relationships with women.
We learnt about
*Common pitfalls in relationships and how to avoid them.
*Understanding the major relationship paradigms and the advantages and disadvantages of each one.
*Dealing with breakups.
Its all about managing yourself and your relationships with women.
We learnt about
*Common pitfalls in relationships and how to avoid them.
*Understanding the major relationship paradigms and the advantages and disadvantages of each one.
*Dealing with breakups.
Week 10 - Sensual Massage
Tonight we learnt the basics of sensual massage.
To take a quote from the written notes...."There is something very special about touch. It can reassure us, calm us, please us, give us confidence in another person as well as bring pleasure. Everything we do as humans is driven by the basic desire to feel good both physically and emotionally. This is why women love a guy with good hands, because he can make them feel amazing very fast."
We were given a quick run down on a particular technique and then we had the opportunity to try it out on one of the female models brought in for the night. This process was repeated through out the night. Every 10 minutes or so we'd take a break, learn a new technique and go practice it.
The notes for this week were really comprehensive. They included diagrams, photos and step by step instructions on everything we were taught.
To take a quote from the written notes...."There is something very special about touch. It can reassure us, calm us, please us, give us confidence in another person as well as bring pleasure. Everything we do as humans is driven by the basic desire to feel good both physically and emotionally. This is why women love a guy with good hands, because he can make them feel amazing very fast."
We were given a quick run down on a particular technique and then we had the opportunity to try it out on one of the female models brought in for the night. This process was repeated through out the night. Every 10 minutes or so we'd take a break, learn a new technique and go practice it.
The notes for this week were really comprehensive. They included diagrams, photos and step by step instructions on everything we were taught.
Sex
WEEK 9 - SEX
This session was run by Shae.
We covered:
*Sexual philosophy
*Tips and tricks for good loving
*The Wheel of exchange
*Female anatomy
*Basic Tantra
Something that made a lot of sense to me was a topic we covered called "On Being the Man (Dominance)".
We explored the typical masculine man/feminine woman dynamic and ways to amplify this dynamic.
This session was run by Shae.
We covered:
*Sexual philosophy
*Tips and tricks for good loving
*The Wheel of exchange
*Female anatomy
*Basic Tantra
Something that made a lot of sense to me was a topic we covered called "On Being the Man (Dominance)".
We explored the typical masculine man/feminine woman dynamic and ways to amplify this dynamic.
A night of many lessons
While I do not have a whole bunch of successes to brag about I did learn some valuable lessons.
The night started off poorly. I had a tough time just working up the courage to approach.
The other masterclass guys there provided some encouragement.
Eventually I got into it. Some fairly average sets followed....I just could not find my mojo.
Then as I was walking to the bar I made and held eye contact with this tall brunette. It was an obvious approach invitation.
SIDE NOTE: These approach invitations never seemed to happen before I took the masterclass. Either my body language and confidence has improved or i've just started noticing them ....or both.
Conversation was horrible. It went nowhere fast.
After a good 10 minutes of boring conversation she excused herself. I was fairly annoyed with myself. She was pretty keen at the start.
Opened a few more sets and then we bounced to the Long Room.
Here I was just casually talking with a friend of mine from the Masterclass when this cute brunette walked past. We made and held solid eye contact. She had a smile on her face and I had a cheeky smirk across mine. She scanned me up and down and then continued to maintain eye contact which then naturally broke as she walked past.
I handed my glass of water (i was driving) to my friend and started off after her. I placed my hand on her elbow and said "Hey". She turned around. I said "whats your name?" She replied "Tiffany". "Hi, I'm Jimi i responded. We then proceeded to dance right there in the middle of the Long Room with no dance floor in sight. The sexual tension was obvious. I pulled her in and our faces were inches apart. I kissed her here.
Now comes the bit where I screw up (READ: Learnt a lesson).
I led her over to the couches after the kiss. When we got there she said. "I dont wanna sit down lets dance"
Then we walked back to the isle. Then she said "Im hot lets get a drink" So we walked to the bar and heres when things just fizzled.
The night started off poorly. I had a tough time just working up the courage to approach.
The other masterclass guys there provided some encouragement.
Eventually I got into it. Some fairly average sets followed....I just could not find my mojo.
Then as I was walking to the bar I made and held eye contact with this tall brunette. It was an obvious approach invitation.
SIDE NOTE: These approach invitations never seemed to happen before I took the masterclass. Either my body language and confidence has improved or i've just started noticing them ....or both.
Conversation was horrible. It went nowhere fast.
After a good 10 minutes of boring conversation she excused herself. I was fairly annoyed with myself. She was pretty keen at the start.
Opened a few more sets and then we bounced to the Long Room.
Here I was just casually talking with a friend of mine from the Masterclass when this cute brunette walked past. We made and held solid eye contact. She had a smile on her face and I had a cheeky smirk across mine. She scanned me up and down and then continued to maintain eye contact which then naturally broke as she walked past.
I handed my glass of water (i was driving) to my friend and started off after her. I placed my hand on her elbow and said "Hey". She turned around. I said "whats your name?" She replied "Tiffany". "Hi, I'm Jimi i responded. We then proceeded to dance right there in the middle of the Long Room with no dance floor in sight. The sexual tension was obvious. I pulled her in and our faces were inches apart. I kissed her here.
Now comes the bit where I screw up (READ: Learnt a lesson).
I led her over to the couches after the kiss. When we got there she said. "I dont wanna sit down lets dance"
Then we walked back to the isle. Then she said "Im hot lets get a drink" So we walked to the bar and heres when things just fizzled.
Monday, July 12, 2010
Benefits of the Masterclass
A short one....
One of the benefits of the Masterclass is that you get to meet a whole bunch of like minded guys. The other night I was out at "the Deck" and ran into some guys from the Masterclass. It was great to see them there...knowing they were there for the same reason as me. ;)
We proceeded to have an awesome night. Report coming soon.....
One of the benefits of the Masterclass is that you get to meet a whole bunch of like minded guys. The other night I was out at "the Deck" and ran into some guys from the Masterclass. It was great to see them there...knowing they were there for the same reason as me. ;)
We proceeded to have an awesome night. Report coming soon.....
Health and Lifestyle
This session was run by Shae and James.
Shae explained breathing, relaxing, diet and exercise and alternative health options available to us such as natural medicine.
James Marshall took over for the 'Lifestyle' part of tonight's class.
To take a quote from the reading material supplied...
"Real success with seduction comes with building a lifestyle which becomes an automated system of introducing women into your life."
We learnt about 'Living as a seducer', expanding social circles and had an introduction to a concept called the 'seductive economy'. It is basically a framework that you can use to bring women into your life using little effort.
I would explain it in more detail but that would really give it away. I highly encourage you to contact the Naturals and enquire about the masterclass if you are curious.
Shae explained breathing, relaxing, diet and exercise and alternative health options available to us such as natural medicine.
James Marshall took over for the 'Lifestyle' part of tonight's class.
To take a quote from the reading material supplied...
"Real success with seduction comes with building a lifestyle which becomes an automated system of introducing women into your life."
We learnt about 'Living as a seducer', expanding social circles and had an introduction to a concept called the 'seductive economy'. It is basically a framework that you can use to bring women into your life using little effort.
I would explain it in more detail but that would really give it away. I highly encourage you to contact the Naturals and enquire about the masterclass if you are curious.
Infield - Adventures at Night
Hah!! That was an amazing night.
Got that club makeout. That had been one of the goals I had written down in Week 1 of the Masterclass.
Night started off at the carlton club. Liam and Damien were the coaches with me.
Liam just pointed out sets for me to approach. I followed orders. First was this danish girl. Went alright. Then it was this three set. That went alright too. I noticed my flirting has been improving steadily. Within 2 minutes of conversation I was talking to one of the girls about how she is a mafia boss and keeps a pistol strapped to her thigh. We created our own mafia together.
The next set was awesome. I winged another guy from the masterclass. He approached a two set. Two sisters. I got the younger one (she was 18) and he took the older one. They were down from Adelaide for the long weekend. I was getting solid signs of interest from the younger one. What I really enjoyed was that they weren't there in the beginning but as I pushed through conversation and added some incidental kino they came thick and fast. My mate left and Damien (flavio- one of the coaches) came in to take the older sister out of the conversation. He soon left as well. So there I was.....trying to get one of the sisters while I had them both engaged in conversation. This went surprisingly well.
We were seated at a round table. My target was right next to me and the older sister was across from us. While I was having pleasant conversation with the older sister I was kinoing my target under the table. She loved it. Our legs were touching the entire night. Every time I emphasized a point in conversation i'd touch her hand or knee. It went well. When I was talking to her I maintained strong intent and held good eye contact and a little smirk just a little while longer. She got what was going on.
She even got up and got me a drink. Even though it was water as I drove.
The sisters had to leave as they were meeting some friends at crown. I got the younger ones number before leaving. As I went to shake her hand and kiss her on the cheek I maintained strong intent. I decided to test out how long I could get her holding my hand after the handshake and surprisingly...she would not let go. I said bye and met up with the guys again, but as I left I just gazed into her eyes for just that fraction of a second longer. She shot back a cheeky/ mischievous grin. Its amazing how all these small things make a difference. Setting up a date with her right now.
We then went to Emerald Peacock. This is where I did my best. We walked in there but it was full of couples. I saw one of the masterclass guys approach a kinda split up 6 set. I went in to wing him. I occupied the other girls while he pulled one of the girls away.
Soon I was in conversation with only one of the girls and the others were talking amongst themselves. She was neutral at first but as I pushed through conversation and got kino going she really opened up. She even slipped 'Im the only single one here into conversation'. Got heaps of kino going after this. She reciprocated. We then bounced the girls to Cookie. On the way there I got to know her friends and built rapport with them. After arriving in cookie we got the kino going again. At this point I knew she was pretty keen so I decided to up things a little. She was standing next to me and fiddling around in her bag for something. I put my arm around her and gently ran the back of my fingers down her tricep....real slow. She loved this. Stepped in closer to me. Almost our entire bodies were touching.
I knew I was pretty much in at this point. At one point earlier in the night she told me she was a dancer. So in conversation I asked her to show me some moves. I grabbed her hand and led her to the dance floor. ISOLATION!!!!
We had a little conversation on the dance floor. Our faces were inches apart. She asked how old I was. I said 24. She replied "oh youre too young for me. I'm 28". I was like ha...lucky I didnt tell her i'm 19. Kept solid eye contact and intent. Went in for the kiss there.
After a few makeouts we went back to her friends. Then I grabbed her hand and went over to a quiet area of Cookie. My goal was to work out logistics. Built heaps of rapport here with her. Had heaps of kino going as well. Turns out she was one of those really up tight girls and what not...and logistics were not gonna work out for me. It was nearing the end of the night so I left after getting her number.
So yeah....thats it.....
Things I learnt:
-It is possible to build attraction/create sexual tension and build comfort at the same time. There were many times when I was talking about really boring 'comfort building' stuff but still maintained strong intent and kept kinoing. Achieved both things for me.
-Kino is massive. Its almost like a scoreboard to tell you where you are at. Depending on the level of kino she accepts and gives back to you you know where you stand. In other words....her words may lie but her body does not.
-Push kino....its amazing what you can get away with.
-First impressions are really important. I was able to make so many mistakes in the actual seduction but because I made a really good first impression I could get away with it.
-Keep pushing through conversations.....they're always uncomfortable at first.
Got that club makeout. That had been one of the goals I had written down in Week 1 of the Masterclass.
Night started off at the carlton club. Liam and Damien were the coaches with me.
Liam just pointed out sets for me to approach. I followed orders. First was this danish girl. Went alright. Then it was this three set. That went alright too. I noticed my flirting has been improving steadily. Within 2 minutes of conversation I was talking to one of the girls about how she is a mafia boss and keeps a pistol strapped to her thigh. We created our own mafia together.
The next set was awesome. I winged another guy from the masterclass. He approached a two set. Two sisters. I got the younger one (she was 18) and he took the older one. They were down from Adelaide for the long weekend. I was getting solid signs of interest from the younger one. What I really enjoyed was that they weren't there in the beginning but as I pushed through conversation and added some incidental kino they came thick and fast. My mate left and Damien (flavio- one of the coaches) came in to take the older sister out of the conversation. He soon left as well. So there I was.....trying to get one of the sisters while I had them both engaged in conversation. This went surprisingly well.
We were seated at a round table. My target was right next to me and the older sister was across from us. While I was having pleasant conversation with the older sister I was kinoing my target under the table. She loved it. Our legs were touching the entire night. Every time I emphasized a point in conversation i'd touch her hand or knee. It went well. When I was talking to her I maintained strong intent and held good eye contact and a little smirk just a little while longer. She got what was going on.
She even got up and got me a drink. Even though it was water as I drove.
The sisters had to leave as they were meeting some friends at crown. I got the younger ones number before leaving. As I went to shake her hand and kiss her on the cheek I maintained strong intent. I decided to test out how long I could get her holding my hand after the handshake and surprisingly...she would not let go. I said bye and met up with the guys again, but as I left I just gazed into her eyes for just that fraction of a second longer. She shot back a cheeky/ mischievous grin. Its amazing how all these small things make a difference. Setting up a date with her right now.
We then went to Emerald Peacock. This is where I did my best. We walked in there but it was full of couples. I saw one of the masterclass guys approach a kinda split up 6 set. I went in to wing him. I occupied the other girls while he pulled one of the girls away.
Soon I was in conversation with only one of the girls and the others were talking amongst themselves. She was neutral at first but as I pushed through conversation and got kino going she really opened up. She even slipped 'Im the only single one here into conversation'. Got heaps of kino going after this. She reciprocated. We then bounced the girls to Cookie. On the way there I got to know her friends and built rapport with them. After arriving in cookie we got the kino going again. At this point I knew she was pretty keen so I decided to up things a little. She was standing next to me and fiddling around in her bag for something. I put my arm around her and gently ran the back of my fingers down her tricep....real slow. She loved this. Stepped in closer to me. Almost our entire bodies were touching.
I knew I was pretty much in at this point. At one point earlier in the night she told me she was a dancer. So in conversation I asked her to show me some moves. I grabbed her hand and led her to the dance floor. ISOLATION!!!!
We had a little conversation on the dance floor. Our faces were inches apart. She asked how old I was. I said 24. She replied "oh youre too young for me. I'm 28". I was like ha...lucky I didnt tell her i'm 19. Kept solid eye contact and intent. Went in for the kiss there.
After a few makeouts we went back to her friends. Then I grabbed her hand and went over to a quiet area of Cookie. My goal was to work out logistics. Built heaps of rapport here with her. Had heaps of kino going as well. Turns out she was one of those really up tight girls and what not...and logistics were not gonna work out for me. It was nearing the end of the night so I left after getting her number.
So yeah....thats it.....
Things I learnt:
-It is possible to build attraction/create sexual tension and build comfort at the same time. There were many times when I was talking about really boring 'comfort building' stuff but still maintained strong intent and kept kinoing. Achieved both things for me.
-Kino is massive. Its almost like a scoreboard to tell you where you are at. Depending on the level of kino she accepts and gives back to you you know where you stand. In other words....her words may lie but her body does not.
-Push kino....its amazing what you can get away with.
-First impressions are really important. I was able to make so many mistakes in the actual seduction but because I made a really good first impression I could get away with it.
-Keep pushing through conversations.....they're always uncomfortable at first.
Seduction 2
Previously on Jimi's adventures......
We learnt seduction from opening to number closing.
Tonight we learnt about the little nitty gritty in between bits as well as what to do with numbers, setting up dates, flirting and handling objections.
In keeping with the Naturals way of teaching the class started out with some important principals. All human behaviour can be defined by the need to
1) Feel Good
2) Feel significant
Seduction works around those principles.
James Marshall took us through leading and compliance, investment and logistics.
Something that I felt was very important was the section on shaping and qualification. A simple example of this is....
if you were to walk up to someone and tell them they 'look friendly' they really have no choice but to act friendly and accept your frame. Not many people are going to disagree with you when you tell them they look friendly.
Next we learnt about dates and were presented with a case study of a 'perfect date'. We looked through what works and what does not.
After dates came 'end game'. The last moments before sex and how to properly (read: seductively) navigate through this.
We learnt seduction from opening to number closing.
Tonight we learnt about the little nitty gritty in between bits as well as what to do with numbers, setting up dates, flirting and handling objections.
In keeping with the Naturals way of teaching the class started out with some important principals. All human behaviour can be defined by the need to
1) Feel Good
2) Feel significant
Seduction works around those principles.
James Marshall took us through leading and compliance, investment and logistics.
Something that I felt was very important was the section on shaping and qualification. A simple example of this is....
if you were to walk up to someone and tell them they 'look friendly' they really have no choice but to act friendly and accept your frame. Not many people are going to disagree with you when you tell them they look friendly.
Next we learnt about dates and were presented with a case study of a 'perfect date'. We looked through what works and what does not.
After dates came 'end game'. The last moments before sex and how to properly (read: seductively) navigate through this.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
I love success
Was going home after uni today. Just casually walking down the escalators in Melbourne central thinking to myself. I feel like crap.....definitely not going to be doing approaches today.
Out of the corner of my eye I saw this girl....she was cute and standing on the platform all by herself. Tall brunette with an amazing sense of style. She would have not been older than 20. Our eyes met and we held eye contact just a little too long. A smirk came over my face. The train pulled up and we both got on. She got herself a seat and I happened to be standing near her. Again our eyes met but she looked away quickly and then looked back and realised I had not shifted my gaze. I squeezed out a little smile at her. She smiled and looked away coyly. I could feel the tension between us. The way she looked at me....the way she smiled.
Gah..i just had to get near to her. Somehow this feeling came over me. I felt compelled to go and have a chat to her.
As the train approached South Yarra station the person sitting next to her got up. I seized this opportunity and brushed past some people in the way and took that seat.
I pulled out my phone and typed into it ..."Hey, you're really cute. Whats your name?" Handed this to her. She read it and smiled. Punched in 'ellen' and handed it back to me. I typed in 'you look like an arts student. Am I right?' (she was reading a book) and handed the phone to her. She looked at it and giggled. We started talking from here.
As the train came up to my station I got her phone number and left.
Feels great to be back in it.
Jimi
Out of the corner of my eye I saw this girl....she was cute and standing on the platform all by herself. Tall brunette with an amazing sense of style. She would have not been older than 20. Our eyes met and we held eye contact just a little too long. A smirk came over my face. The train pulled up and we both got on. She got herself a seat and I happened to be standing near her. Again our eyes met but she looked away quickly and then looked back and realised I had not shifted my gaze. I squeezed out a little smile at her. She smiled and looked away coyly. I could feel the tension between us. The way she looked at me....the way she smiled.
Gah..i just had to get near to her. Somehow this feeling came over me. I felt compelled to go and have a chat to her.
As the train approached South Yarra station the person sitting next to her got up. I seized this opportunity and brushed past some people in the way and took that seat.
I pulled out my phone and typed into it ..."Hey, you're really cute. Whats your name?" Handed this to her. She read it and smiled. Punched in 'ellen' and handed it back to me. I typed in 'you look like an arts student. Am I right?' (she was reading a book) and handed the phone to her. She looked at it and giggled. We started talking from here.
As the train came up to my station I got her phone number and left.
Feels great to be back in it.
Jimi
Inner Game 2
This week has been pretty horrible so far. I cant seem to work out who I am anymore. Im starting to integrate all these new personality traits with myself but sometimes I just feel weird. How am I supposed to be myself if I don't know who I am?
My internal struggles coincided perfectly with this weeks topic. Inner Game 2.
I'm quite impressed actually. At the exact time when many guys in the class are coming up against these internal problems we have an Inner Game class. The Naturals really do know what they are doing. Shae was back for this class.
Tonight's class was all about giving us different models on how our minds work. We discussed the conscious mind and the subconscious and how they interact. The main message seemed to be....'make your subconscious mind your friend, learn how it works and it will serve you'.
There were some exercises for us to complete in the class. There was one in particular that helped me. It was an exercise that helped change negative beliefs.
Thats it for now
Jimi
My internal struggles coincided perfectly with this weeks topic. Inner Game 2.
I'm quite impressed actually. At the exact time when many guys in the class are coming up against these internal problems we have an Inner Game class. The Naturals really do know what they are doing. Shae was back for this class.
Tonight's class was all about giving us different models on how our minds work. We discussed the conscious mind and the subconscious and how they interact. The main message seemed to be....'make your subconscious mind your friend, learn how it works and it will serve you'.
There were some exercises for us to complete in the class. There was one in particular that helped me. It was an exercise that helped change negative beliefs.
Thats it for now
Jimi
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