Monday, July 12, 2010

Infield - Adventures at Night

Hah!! That was an amazing night.
Got that club makeout. That had been one of the goals I had written down in Week 1 of the Masterclass.

Night started off at the carlton club. Liam and Damien were the coaches with me.

Liam just pointed out sets for me to approach. I followed orders. First was this danish girl. Went alright. Then it was this three set. That went alright too. I noticed my flirting has been improving steadily. Within 2 minutes of conversation I was talking to one of the girls about how she is a mafia boss and keeps a pistol strapped to her thigh. We created our own mafia together.

The next set was awesome. I winged another guy from the masterclass. He approached a two set. Two sisters. I got the younger one (she was 18) and he took the older one. They were down from Adelaide for the long weekend. I was getting solid signs of interest from the younger one. What I really enjoyed was that they weren't there in the beginning but as I pushed through conversation and added some incidental kino they came thick and fast. My mate left and Damien (flavio- one of the coaches) came in to take the older sister out of the conversation. He soon left as well. So there I was.....trying to get one of the sisters while I had them both engaged in conversation. This went surprisingly well.
We were seated at a round table. My target was right next to me and the older sister was across from us. While I was having pleasant conversation with the older sister I was kinoing my target under the table. She loved it. Our legs were touching the entire night. Every time I emphasized a point in conversation i'd touch her hand or knee. It went well. When I was talking to her I maintained strong intent and held good eye contact and a little smirk just a little while longer. She got what was going on.
She even got up and got me a drink. Even though it was water as I drove.
The sisters had to leave as they were meeting some friends at crown. I got the younger ones number before leaving. As I went to shake her hand and kiss her on the cheek I maintained strong intent. I decided to test out how long I could get her holding my hand after the handshake and surprisingly...she would not let go. I said bye and met up with the guys again, but as I left I just gazed into her eyes for just that fraction of a second longer. She shot back a cheeky/ mischievous grin. Its amazing how all these small things make a difference. Setting up a date with her right now.

We then went to Emerald Peacock. This is where I did my best. We walked in there but it was full of couples. I saw one of the masterclass guys approach a kinda split up 6 set. I went in to wing him. I occupied the other girls while he pulled one of the girls away.

Soon I was in conversation with only one of the girls and the others were talking amongst themselves. She was neutral at first but as I pushed through conversation and got kino going she really opened up. She even slipped 'Im the only single one here into conversation'. Got heaps of kino going after this. She reciprocated. We then bounced the girls to Cookie. On the way there I got to know her friends and built rapport with them. After arriving in cookie we got the kino going again. At this point I knew she was pretty keen so I decided to up things a little. She was standing next to me and fiddling around in her bag for something. I put my arm around her and gently ran the back of my fingers down her tricep....real slow. She loved this. Stepped in closer to me. Almost our entire bodies were touching.
I knew I was pretty much in at this point. At one point earlier in the night she told me she was a dancer. So in conversation I asked her to show me some moves. I grabbed her hand and led her to the dance floor. ISOLATION!!!!

We had a little conversation on the dance floor. Our faces were inches apart. She asked how old I was. I said 24. She replied "oh youre too young for me. I'm 28". I was like ha...lucky I didnt tell her i'm 19. Kept solid eye contact and intent. Went in for the kiss there.
After a few makeouts we went back to her friends. Then I grabbed her hand and went over to a quiet area of Cookie. My goal was to work out logistics. Built heaps of rapport here with her. Had heaps of kino going as well. Turns out she was one of those really up tight girls and what not...and logistics were not gonna work out for me. It was nearing the end of the night so I left after getting her number.

So yeah....thats it.....

Things I learnt:
-It is possible to build attraction/create sexual tension and build comfort at the same time. There were many times when I was talking about really boring 'comfort building' stuff but still maintained strong intent and kept kinoing. Achieved both things for me.

-Kino is massive. Its almost like a scoreboard to tell you where you are at. Depending on the level of kino she accepts and gives back to you you know where you stand. In other words....her words may lie but her body does not.

-Push kino....its amazing what you can get away with.

-First impressions are really important. I was able to make so many mistakes in the actual seduction but because I made a really good first impression I could get away with it.

-Keep pushing through conversations.....they're always uncomfortable at first.

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