The First Infield

Wow

What an amazing day.

The whole Masterclass met up on the steps of Federation square. We said our hellos and were quickly divided up into groups with each one going to a different part of the city.

First stop for me was Federation square.
Shae came over to me and pointed out a cute brunette sitting on the steps by herself.
"Theres your first one" he said.

The adrenaline was pumping....my heart racing.
Conversation went well. Found out she was a dancer, loved music and was a fitness junkie. She was too young though. I thanked her for the conversation and went back to the group.

Second approach was a group of two girls who seemed to be filming something. Shae threw me in there with them. Turns out the two of them were film students and were filming a documentary about how technology is taking over the world. While Shae 'distracted' one of them I began to talk to the other. She was the actress/presenter of the documentary. We flirted and had some fun and by the end of it I came away with her number.

The next stop was Tim who was on the steps of the State Library. We wandered into melbourne central and waited at the top of the escalators. From here Tim pointed out gorgeous women who walked past for us to approach. Each time I approached I was anxious, my head was spinning and my feet didn't want to move but I pushed through and went after the girls. Each time I learned something about myself. Tim pointed out how I could fix my body language and my intent and helped some guys with inner game issues.

Next stop LIAM!!!!
He waited for us in Bourke Street Mall. His speciality: pushing your social boundaries.
Our first exercise was to stand on top of one of the benches and do kung fu. Why? you might ask.......
No one cares. Thats why. As we did it....and yelled at the top of our voices no one bothered to turn and look. Just as when you approach....no one cares and if you screw up. The girl probably wont remember you the next day so why be afraid to approach?
What followed was a good hour of hilarity. From asking random girls to marry us to telling mums that their 'sister' walking next to them was cute and trying to pick them up. Learnt that anything was possible.



Something that really stuck with me was a line that Tim said at some point near the end of the day.
"Realize that this is not a game. You do not need to go out there 'gaming' to meet women. It should become part of your life, so that when you see that amazing woman you go right over to her and talk to her." Well....it was something along those lines, but the basic point of it was that you should be the kind of guy who takes his life into his own hands. (Almost) Any time you see a gorgeous woman is a good time to go say 'hi' to her.

Body Landuage and Touch Escalation

This week was split up into two sections.

The first was run by James. He covered the basics of body language.

It is all about modelling "Alpha male" body language.
Smiling, good eye contact, relaxed but upright posture and so on.
What I found interesting was the fact that women take in a lot of information from your body language. Before any words come out of your mouth a girl's mind has already passed judgement on you based on your body language.

Think about it......

Would you feel more comfortable around a person who was slouched over, had poor eye contact and fidgeted......or a person who stood upright, maintained good eye contact and moved slowly and confidently?
And you have not even listened to what they have to say.


In my opinion body language is really important at night, in the bars and clubs of Melbourne. Why?

With the music so loud and distractions everywhere it is very hard to communicate through words. It is here where body language becomes really important.


The second section was run by Tim.
He covered touch.

In a nutshell.....women want to be touched by men they like, but there is a right way and a wrong way to do this.

He also covered escalation and kissing.

Success

Finally......

My best interaction to date.

Approached a cute blonde on the steps of the State Library. Got her number and set up a date with her.

Ha!!!

A bad week

This week has been horrible.....
All my approaches in the day were terrible. I found starting conversations really hard.

Definately not a good week.

One of the best things about the masterclass is the fact that the coaches are willing to offer individual help to each student. I spoke with James and Shae about my week. They broke down and analysed my approaches and gave me some hints on how I should approach and the mindsets I should have.

Cant wait to get out there again.

Inner Game: The glue that holds it together

This weeks session was on Inner Game.

This is really what holds it all together. All the fancy lines and techniques in the world will not work if you do not truly believe in yourself and believe that you deserve quality women.

Inner Game is all about
*Personal Power
*Internal Value
*Self Image

We learnt about meditation, expanding comfort zones and building value in your character.

Its quite hard to explain exactly what was covered through a blog as I do not believe that readers will be able to fully understand what went on.

Basically what happened is we were given a set of ideas and tools that we could use to change our outlook on life.

Thats it for now.

Jimi

Our folders

These are the folders we are using. Each week we are given a booklet that contains all the information from the sessions as well as a workbook that contains a set of missions that we need to complete.

Newbies night: The cute blonde and the horny french guy

Newbies night is run by the Melbourne Lair every few months. It gives new members a chance to meet others and have a good time as well as meet some gorgeous women.

There were almost 60 or so guys there. We spilt up into groups and hit various parts of Melbourne.

My group headed out into the city.

It started off really bad. First stop was spice market. Was full of older people (30-45 year olds). Was horrible. Then we bounced to silk road which was similar. Dont know what was up the other night. It seemed the whole of melbourne was full of older people. Then as a last resort we went to transport. Same story here.

This sucked....so me and one of the guys there decided to go back to spice market as we had passouts.

FINALLY!!! a decent crowd. Still had a fair few older people but this time round there were some younger ones.

Opened a few sets here and there...went alright....nothing serious.

Then I saw this cute blonde sitting by herself. Walked over and said hi. She was from Sydney and was in Melbourne for the weekend. Conversation went well. Since we were near an isle the bouncer came and told us to move along.

I grabbed her hand and led her to a quieter bit of spice market (the couches). Talked here with her and had quite a bit of good eye contact going. Was building it up for a kiss.....closing distance between me and her....then a friend of hers came and pulled her to the dance floor.

Argh!!!

As I was walkin around I saw her again but this time there was this guy chatting her up. I thought to myself....no way shes mine.

So I interrupter them. Chatted to the blonde for a while. Then turned my attention to the guy. He seemed like a massive douchebag. He was wearing sunnies, had a cigar (not lit) and had a strong french accent.

Then I turned my attention back to the blonde. We were getting closer together and there was a fair bit of kino going on between us but the french guy kept interrupting.
Soon the guy and myself were in a conversation again.

This is when stuff started to get weird.

He just casually mentioned to me. "How about the three of us go back to my room?"

I was like "what do you mean?"

He looked at me and taped his nose "you know what I mean. The three of us....my room....bang, bang, bang."

I was like WTF!!!!! Theres this crazy french guy, probably in his 30's, looks like a douchebag, wears sunnies indoors and carries cigars......and he's asking me to have a threesome.

WTF!!!
I replied "sorry mate, I dont swing that way...its not my kinda thing"

He replied "thats ok....i wont touch you and you wont touch me"

He tried again a few more times.

Again I rejected him....he got the message..finally..phew!!

The blonde thought it was hilarious.

Back with the blonde. (The french guy figured he had little chance with her now so he left)

It was getting late, her friends were around us and I knew the kiss close wasnt on so I went for a number.

"Hey, you're fun, put your number in and we'll have some adventures together"

She then said "I can't, I've got a boyfriend"
I replied "Well he's gonna have to learn to share" and again went for the number. She laughed but still refused to give me a number.


I explained (with a cheeky grin on my face) "Im like that pair of shoes that you only wear once in a while. It'll be fine."
Again she laughed, told me I was charming but still didn't give me her number.
She was a lot of fun so I continued talking with her.
She gave me a good 10 minutes of solid conversation. She was a quality girl.

At 2am the place was closing down so I said bye kissed her on the cheek and left.

The next installment

SEDUCTION 1

Attraction is all about emotional impact. That was probably the most important thing I learnt from this session. Cars, money and value don't matter as much as we're lead to believe. I must admit.....I used to be one of those value obsessed people. After reading "the Game" I was convinced that only the guys who displayed high value or were seen as the "Alpha male" got the girls. Yes this is true to some extent but the emotional impact you make on a girl is far more important.

This session was run by James Marshall and Tim Stubbs.

James is a pretty laid back kind of guy who's been involved with this stuff for 10 years or so. He explained the main concepts and gave us frameworks for good conversation.

Tim on the other hand was full of energy, jumping around and explaining his ideas. He went through a few elements of seduction as well as number closing.