I am quite pleased with myself.
Three months on from the finish of the Masterclass and I'm starting to see some awesome results.
The other night I kissed 6 girls before taking one home.
I spotted her in the middle of the dance floor. Our eyes met and I shot her a cheeky look. Walked over to her and said "hey'. (Shout out to the Naturals here. The 'Make no apology, take full responsibility' rule in action. I was making no apology that I found her sexy and wanted her.) The sexual tension was solid. I went for the kiss pretty much straight away. She was really into it. She had her hands all over me and started groping me. She was quite cute. Amazing face, decent body and she had an amesome personality....which I soon discovered.
After almost 10 minutes of dancing and making out I bounced her to the couches and made out some more in between spells of chatter. She was a really cool girl. We clicked and things went so much smoother than I thought it would.
We bounced back to the dance floor for some more making out and dancing. Then we both went to grab a drink. A water for me as I drove. More conversation ensued.
Fast forward 30 minutes....
I was in her bed, the lights were off. Clothes were being stripped off, bit by bit.
The sex was good.
Summer is coming up. Cant wait to see what craziness I'll be getting up to.
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Week 12 - The Conclusion
Wow....what a ride it has been. I felt a little sad when the Masterclass ended. With all of us living busy lives I knew it would be very unlikely that our whole group would be able to meet up again. I have formed friendships with guys who are on exactly the same path as me. I hope these last a long time.
I will miss the coaches. (James, Shae, Tim and Jess ....along with Liam and Damien the assistant coaches). They are some of the nicest and most genuine people I have ever met. Not only do I see them as coaches but as friends.
Its been an incredible journey for me. Looking back I am so glad I took the Masterclass. Everyone has taken something away from it. Part of this weeks class involved each of us giving a short speech on our journey. Every single person in the Masterclass had an amazing time and had an enormous amount of success in all areas of their life...from business to relationships with women to relationships with social circles and family. To fully understand this you would had to have been in the room tonight to feel that energy.
In regards to myself....
I look at the world differently now. During my speech I was asked "What changes have you noticed?" For me almost everything has changed, but in saying that I should note that 80% of this change has been internal. I see myself as a creator of my own story, someone who creates his own reality. Over the past 12 weeks I have been living this new reality and have met some amazing women. I see possibilities in front of me that I never saw before. The Masterclass has helped give me a road map for how I want to live my life.
Another benefit of the Masterclass is the written notes. I now have a large folder filled with tools to help me as I progress through life. From conversational frameworks to help with women to visualizations to help with setting goals...its all there.
I have learnt so much in the past 12 weeks.
I'm only 19....the future is very bright indeed.
I will miss the coaches. (James, Shae, Tim and Jess ....along with Liam and Damien the assistant coaches). They are some of the nicest and most genuine people I have ever met. Not only do I see them as coaches but as friends.
Its been an incredible journey for me. Looking back I am so glad I took the Masterclass. Everyone has taken something away from it. Part of this weeks class involved each of us giving a short speech on our journey. Every single person in the Masterclass had an amazing time and had an enormous amount of success in all areas of their life...from business to relationships with women to relationships with social circles and family. To fully understand this you would had to have been in the room tonight to feel that energy.
In regards to myself....
I look at the world differently now. During my speech I was asked "What changes have you noticed?" For me almost everything has changed, but in saying that I should note that 80% of this change has been internal. I see myself as a creator of my own story, someone who creates his own reality. Over the past 12 weeks I have been living this new reality and have met some amazing women. I see possibilities in front of me that I never saw before. The Masterclass has helped give me a road map for how I want to live my life.
Another benefit of the Masterclass is the written notes. I now have a large folder filled with tools to help me as I progress through life. From conversational frameworks to help with women to visualizations to help with setting goals...its all there.
I have learnt so much in the past 12 weeks.
I'm only 19....the future is very bright indeed.
Week 11 - Relationships
Possibly the most important session of the Masterclass.
Its all about managing yourself and your relationships with women.
We learnt about
*Common pitfalls in relationships and how to avoid them.
*Understanding the major relationship paradigms and the advantages and disadvantages of each one.
*Dealing with breakups.
Its all about managing yourself and your relationships with women.
We learnt about
*Common pitfalls in relationships and how to avoid them.
*Understanding the major relationship paradigms and the advantages and disadvantages of each one.
*Dealing with breakups.
Week 10 - Sensual Massage
Tonight we learnt the basics of sensual massage.
To take a quote from the written notes...."There is something very special about touch. It can reassure us, calm us, please us, give us confidence in another person as well as bring pleasure. Everything we do as humans is driven by the basic desire to feel good both physically and emotionally. This is why women love a guy with good hands, because he can make them feel amazing very fast."
We were given a quick run down on a particular technique and then we had the opportunity to try it out on one of the female models brought in for the night. This process was repeated through out the night. Every 10 minutes or so we'd take a break, learn a new technique and go practice it.
The notes for this week were really comprehensive. They included diagrams, photos and step by step instructions on everything we were taught.
To take a quote from the written notes...."There is something very special about touch. It can reassure us, calm us, please us, give us confidence in another person as well as bring pleasure. Everything we do as humans is driven by the basic desire to feel good both physically and emotionally. This is why women love a guy with good hands, because he can make them feel amazing very fast."
We were given a quick run down on a particular technique and then we had the opportunity to try it out on one of the female models brought in for the night. This process was repeated through out the night. Every 10 minutes or so we'd take a break, learn a new technique and go practice it.
The notes for this week were really comprehensive. They included diagrams, photos and step by step instructions on everything we were taught.
Sex
WEEK 9 - SEX
This session was run by Shae.
We covered:
*Sexual philosophy
*Tips and tricks for good loving
*The Wheel of exchange
*Female anatomy
*Basic Tantra
Something that made a lot of sense to me was a topic we covered called "On Being the Man (Dominance)".
We explored the typical masculine man/feminine woman dynamic and ways to amplify this dynamic.
This session was run by Shae.
We covered:
*Sexual philosophy
*Tips and tricks for good loving
*The Wheel of exchange
*Female anatomy
*Basic Tantra
Something that made a lot of sense to me was a topic we covered called "On Being the Man (Dominance)".
We explored the typical masculine man/feminine woman dynamic and ways to amplify this dynamic.
A night of many lessons
While I do not have a whole bunch of successes to brag about I did learn some valuable lessons.
The night started off poorly. I had a tough time just working up the courage to approach.
The other masterclass guys there provided some encouragement.
Eventually I got into it. Some fairly average sets followed....I just could not find my mojo.
Then as I was walking to the bar I made and held eye contact with this tall brunette. It was an obvious approach invitation.
SIDE NOTE: These approach invitations never seemed to happen before I took the masterclass. Either my body language and confidence has improved or i've just started noticing them ....or both.
Conversation was horrible. It went nowhere fast.
After a good 10 minutes of boring conversation she excused herself. I was fairly annoyed with myself. She was pretty keen at the start.
Opened a few more sets and then we bounced to the Long Room.
Here I was just casually talking with a friend of mine from the Masterclass when this cute brunette walked past. We made and held solid eye contact. She had a smile on her face and I had a cheeky smirk across mine. She scanned me up and down and then continued to maintain eye contact which then naturally broke as she walked past.
I handed my glass of water (i was driving) to my friend and started off after her. I placed my hand on her elbow and said "Hey". She turned around. I said "whats your name?" She replied "Tiffany". "Hi, I'm Jimi i responded. We then proceeded to dance right there in the middle of the Long Room with no dance floor in sight. The sexual tension was obvious. I pulled her in and our faces were inches apart. I kissed her here.
Now comes the bit where I screw up (READ: Learnt a lesson).
I led her over to the couches after the kiss. When we got there she said. "I dont wanna sit down lets dance"
Then we walked back to the isle. Then she said "Im hot lets get a drink" So we walked to the bar and heres when things just fizzled.
The night started off poorly. I had a tough time just working up the courage to approach.
The other masterclass guys there provided some encouragement.
Eventually I got into it. Some fairly average sets followed....I just could not find my mojo.
Then as I was walking to the bar I made and held eye contact with this tall brunette. It was an obvious approach invitation.
SIDE NOTE: These approach invitations never seemed to happen before I took the masterclass. Either my body language and confidence has improved or i've just started noticing them ....or both.
Conversation was horrible. It went nowhere fast.
After a good 10 minutes of boring conversation she excused herself. I was fairly annoyed with myself. She was pretty keen at the start.
Opened a few more sets and then we bounced to the Long Room.
Here I was just casually talking with a friend of mine from the Masterclass when this cute brunette walked past. We made and held solid eye contact. She had a smile on her face and I had a cheeky smirk across mine. She scanned me up and down and then continued to maintain eye contact which then naturally broke as she walked past.
I handed my glass of water (i was driving) to my friend and started off after her. I placed my hand on her elbow and said "Hey". She turned around. I said "whats your name?" She replied "Tiffany". "Hi, I'm Jimi i responded. We then proceeded to dance right there in the middle of the Long Room with no dance floor in sight. The sexual tension was obvious. I pulled her in and our faces were inches apart. I kissed her here.
Now comes the bit where I screw up (READ: Learnt a lesson).
I led her over to the couches after the kiss. When we got there she said. "I dont wanna sit down lets dance"
Then we walked back to the isle. Then she said "Im hot lets get a drink" So we walked to the bar and heres when things just fizzled.
Monday, July 12, 2010
Benefits of the Masterclass
A short one....
One of the benefits of the Masterclass is that you get to meet a whole bunch of like minded guys. The other night I was out at "the Deck" and ran into some guys from the Masterclass. It was great to see them there...knowing they were there for the same reason as me. ;)
We proceeded to have an awesome night. Report coming soon.....
One of the benefits of the Masterclass is that you get to meet a whole bunch of like minded guys. The other night I was out at "the Deck" and ran into some guys from the Masterclass. It was great to see them there...knowing they were there for the same reason as me. ;)
We proceeded to have an awesome night. Report coming soon.....
Health and Lifestyle
This session was run by Shae and James.
Shae explained breathing, relaxing, diet and exercise and alternative health options available to us such as natural medicine.
James Marshall took over for the 'Lifestyle' part of tonight's class.
To take a quote from the reading material supplied...
"Real success with seduction comes with building a lifestyle which becomes an automated system of introducing women into your life."
We learnt about 'Living as a seducer', expanding social circles and had an introduction to a concept called the 'seductive economy'. It is basically a framework that you can use to bring women into your life using little effort.
I would explain it in more detail but that would really give it away. I highly encourage you to contact the Naturals and enquire about the masterclass if you are curious.
Shae explained breathing, relaxing, diet and exercise and alternative health options available to us such as natural medicine.
James Marshall took over for the 'Lifestyle' part of tonight's class.
To take a quote from the reading material supplied...
"Real success with seduction comes with building a lifestyle which becomes an automated system of introducing women into your life."
We learnt about 'Living as a seducer', expanding social circles and had an introduction to a concept called the 'seductive economy'. It is basically a framework that you can use to bring women into your life using little effort.
I would explain it in more detail but that would really give it away. I highly encourage you to contact the Naturals and enquire about the masterclass if you are curious.
Infield - Adventures at Night
Hah!! That was an amazing night.
Got that club makeout. That had been one of the goals I had written down in Week 1 of the Masterclass.
Night started off at the carlton club. Liam and Damien were the coaches with me.
Liam just pointed out sets for me to approach. I followed orders. First was this danish girl. Went alright. Then it was this three set. That went alright too. I noticed my flirting has been improving steadily. Within 2 minutes of conversation I was talking to one of the girls about how she is a mafia boss and keeps a pistol strapped to her thigh. We created our own mafia together.
The next set was awesome. I winged another guy from the masterclass. He approached a two set. Two sisters. I got the younger one (she was 18) and he took the older one. They were down from Adelaide for the long weekend. I was getting solid signs of interest from the younger one. What I really enjoyed was that they weren't there in the beginning but as I pushed through conversation and added some incidental kino they came thick and fast. My mate left and Damien (flavio- one of the coaches) came in to take the older sister out of the conversation. He soon left as well. So there I was.....trying to get one of the sisters while I had them both engaged in conversation. This went surprisingly well.
We were seated at a round table. My target was right next to me and the older sister was across from us. While I was having pleasant conversation with the older sister I was kinoing my target under the table. She loved it. Our legs were touching the entire night. Every time I emphasized a point in conversation i'd touch her hand or knee. It went well. When I was talking to her I maintained strong intent and held good eye contact and a little smirk just a little while longer. She got what was going on.
She even got up and got me a drink. Even though it was water as I drove.
The sisters had to leave as they were meeting some friends at crown. I got the younger ones number before leaving. As I went to shake her hand and kiss her on the cheek I maintained strong intent. I decided to test out how long I could get her holding my hand after the handshake and surprisingly...she would not let go. I said bye and met up with the guys again, but as I left I just gazed into her eyes for just that fraction of a second longer. She shot back a cheeky/ mischievous grin. Its amazing how all these small things make a difference. Setting up a date with her right now.
We then went to Emerald Peacock. This is where I did my best. We walked in there but it was full of couples. I saw one of the masterclass guys approach a kinda split up 6 set. I went in to wing him. I occupied the other girls while he pulled one of the girls away.
Soon I was in conversation with only one of the girls and the others were talking amongst themselves. She was neutral at first but as I pushed through conversation and got kino going she really opened up. She even slipped 'Im the only single one here into conversation'. Got heaps of kino going after this. She reciprocated. We then bounced the girls to Cookie. On the way there I got to know her friends and built rapport with them. After arriving in cookie we got the kino going again. At this point I knew she was pretty keen so I decided to up things a little. She was standing next to me and fiddling around in her bag for something. I put my arm around her and gently ran the back of my fingers down her tricep....real slow. She loved this. Stepped in closer to me. Almost our entire bodies were touching.
I knew I was pretty much in at this point. At one point earlier in the night she told me she was a dancer. So in conversation I asked her to show me some moves. I grabbed her hand and led her to the dance floor. ISOLATION!!!!
We had a little conversation on the dance floor. Our faces were inches apart. She asked how old I was. I said 24. She replied "oh youre too young for me. I'm 28". I was like ha...lucky I didnt tell her i'm 19. Kept solid eye contact and intent. Went in for the kiss there.
After a few makeouts we went back to her friends. Then I grabbed her hand and went over to a quiet area of Cookie. My goal was to work out logistics. Built heaps of rapport here with her. Had heaps of kino going as well. Turns out she was one of those really up tight girls and what not...and logistics were not gonna work out for me. It was nearing the end of the night so I left after getting her number.
So yeah....thats it.....
Things I learnt:
-It is possible to build attraction/create sexual tension and build comfort at the same time. There were many times when I was talking about really boring 'comfort building' stuff but still maintained strong intent and kept kinoing. Achieved both things for me.
-Kino is massive. Its almost like a scoreboard to tell you where you are at. Depending on the level of kino she accepts and gives back to you you know where you stand. In other words....her words may lie but her body does not.
-Push kino....its amazing what you can get away with.
-First impressions are really important. I was able to make so many mistakes in the actual seduction but because I made a really good first impression I could get away with it.
-Keep pushing through conversations.....they're always uncomfortable at first.
Got that club makeout. That had been one of the goals I had written down in Week 1 of the Masterclass.
Night started off at the carlton club. Liam and Damien were the coaches with me.
Liam just pointed out sets for me to approach. I followed orders. First was this danish girl. Went alright. Then it was this three set. That went alright too. I noticed my flirting has been improving steadily. Within 2 minutes of conversation I was talking to one of the girls about how she is a mafia boss and keeps a pistol strapped to her thigh. We created our own mafia together.
The next set was awesome. I winged another guy from the masterclass. He approached a two set. Two sisters. I got the younger one (she was 18) and he took the older one. They were down from Adelaide for the long weekend. I was getting solid signs of interest from the younger one. What I really enjoyed was that they weren't there in the beginning but as I pushed through conversation and added some incidental kino they came thick and fast. My mate left and Damien (flavio- one of the coaches) came in to take the older sister out of the conversation. He soon left as well. So there I was.....trying to get one of the sisters while I had them both engaged in conversation. This went surprisingly well.
We were seated at a round table. My target was right next to me and the older sister was across from us. While I was having pleasant conversation with the older sister I was kinoing my target under the table. She loved it. Our legs were touching the entire night. Every time I emphasized a point in conversation i'd touch her hand or knee. It went well. When I was talking to her I maintained strong intent and held good eye contact and a little smirk just a little while longer. She got what was going on.
She even got up and got me a drink. Even though it was water as I drove.
The sisters had to leave as they were meeting some friends at crown. I got the younger ones number before leaving. As I went to shake her hand and kiss her on the cheek I maintained strong intent. I decided to test out how long I could get her holding my hand after the handshake and surprisingly...she would not let go. I said bye and met up with the guys again, but as I left I just gazed into her eyes for just that fraction of a second longer. She shot back a cheeky/ mischievous grin. Its amazing how all these small things make a difference. Setting up a date with her right now.
We then went to Emerald Peacock. This is where I did my best. We walked in there but it was full of couples. I saw one of the masterclass guys approach a kinda split up 6 set. I went in to wing him. I occupied the other girls while he pulled one of the girls away.
Soon I was in conversation with only one of the girls and the others were talking amongst themselves. She was neutral at first but as I pushed through conversation and got kino going she really opened up. She even slipped 'Im the only single one here into conversation'. Got heaps of kino going after this. She reciprocated. We then bounced the girls to Cookie. On the way there I got to know her friends and built rapport with them. After arriving in cookie we got the kino going again. At this point I knew she was pretty keen so I decided to up things a little. She was standing next to me and fiddling around in her bag for something. I put my arm around her and gently ran the back of my fingers down her tricep....real slow. She loved this. Stepped in closer to me. Almost our entire bodies were touching.
I knew I was pretty much in at this point. At one point earlier in the night she told me she was a dancer. So in conversation I asked her to show me some moves. I grabbed her hand and led her to the dance floor. ISOLATION!!!!
We had a little conversation on the dance floor. Our faces were inches apart. She asked how old I was. I said 24. She replied "oh youre too young for me. I'm 28". I was like ha...lucky I didnt tell her i'm 19. Kept solid eye contact and intent. Went in for the kiss there.
After a few makeouts we went back to her friends. Then I grabbed her hand and went over to a quiet area of Cookie. My goal was to work out logistics. Built heaps of rapport here with her. Had heaps of kino going as well. Turns out she was one of those really up tight girls and what not...and logistics were not gonna work out for me. It was nearing the end of the night so I left after getting her number.
So yeah....thats it.....
Things I learnt:
-It is possible to build attraction/create sexual tension and build comfort at the same time. There were many times when I was talking about really boring 'comfort building' stuff but still maintained strong intent and kept kinoing. Achieved both things for me.
-Kino is massive. Its almost like a scoreboard to tell you where you are at. Depending on the level of kino she accepts and gives back to you you know where you stand. In other words....her words may lie but her body does not.
-Push kino....its amazing what you can get away with.
-First impressions are really important. I was able to make so many mistakes in the actual seduction but because I made a really good first impression I could get away with it.
-Keep pushing through conversations.....they're always uncomfortable at first.
Seduction 2
Previously on Jimi's adventures......
We learnt seduction from opening to number closing.
Tonight we learnt about the little nitty gritty in between bits as well as what to do with numbers, setting up dates, flirting and handling objections.
In keeping with the Naturals way of teaching the class started out with some important principals. All human behaviour can be defined by the need to
1) Feel Good
2) Feel significant
Seduction works around those principles.
James Marshall took us through leading and compliance, investment and logistics.
Something that I felt was very important was the section on shaping and qualification. A simple example of this is....
if you were to walk up to someone and tell them they 'look friendly' they really have no choice but to act friendly and accept your frame. Not many people are going to disagree with you when you tell them they look friendly.
Next we learnt about dates and were presented with a case study of a 'perfect date'. We looked through what works and what does not.
After dates came 'end game'. The last moments before sex and how to properly (read: seductively) navigate through this.
We learnt seduction from opening to number closing.
Tonight we learnt about the little nitty gritty in between bits as well as what to do with numbers, setting up dates, flirting and handling objections.
In keeping with the Naturals way of teaching the class started out with some important principals. All human behaviour can be defined by the need to
1) Feel Good
2) Feel significant
Seduction works around those principles.
James Marshall took us through leading and compliance, investment and logistics.
Something that I felt was very important was the section on shaping and qualification. A simple example of this is....
if you were to walk up to someone and tell them they 'look friendly' they really have no choice but to act friendly and accept your frame. Not many people are going to disagree with you when you tell them they look friendly.
Next we learnt about dates and were presented with a case study of a 'perfect date'. We looked through what works and what does not.
After dates came 'end game'. The last moments before sex and how to properly (read: seductively) navigate through this.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
I love success
Was going home after uni today. Just casually walking down the escalators in Melbourne central thinking to myself. I feel like crap.....definitely not going to be doing approaches today.
Out of the corner of my eye I saw this girl....she was cute and standing on the platform all by herself. Tall brunette with an amazing sense of style. She would have not been older than 20. Our eyes met and we held eye contact just a little too long. A smirk came over my face. The train pulled up and we both got on. She got herself a seat and I happened to be standing near her. Again our eyes met but she looked away quickly and then looked back and realised I had not shifted my gaze. I squeezed out a little smile at her. She smiled and looked away coyly. I could feel the tension between us. The way she looked at me....the way she smiled.
Gah..i just had to get near to her. Somehow this feeling came over me. I felt compelled to go and have a chat to her.
As the train approached South Yarra station the person sitting next to her got up. I seized this opportunity and brushed past some people in the way and took that seat.
I pulled out my phone and typed into it ..."Hey, you're really cute. Whats your name?" Handed this to her. She read it and smiled. Punched in 'ellen' and handed it back to me. I typed in 'you look like an arts student. Am I right?' (she was reading a book) and handed the phone to her. She looked at it and giggled. We started talking from here.
As the train came up to my station I got her phone number and left.
Feels great to be back in it.
Jimi
Out of the corner of my eye I saw this girl....she was cute and standing on the platform all by herself. Tall brunette with an amazing sense of style. She would have not been older than 20. Our eyes met and we held eye contact just a little too long. A smirk came over my face. The train pulled up and we both got on. She got herself a seat and I happened to be standing near her. Again our eyes met but she looked away quickly and then looked back and realised I had not shifted my gaze. I squeezed out a little smile at her. She smiled and looked away coyly. I could feel the tension between us. The way she looked at me....the way she smiled.
Gah..i just had to get near to her. Somehow this feeling came over me. I felt compelled to go and have a chat to her.
As the train approached South Yarra station the person sitting next to her got up. I seized this opportunity and brushed past some people in the way and took that seat.
I pulled out my phone and typed into it ..."Hey, you're really cute. Whats your name?" Handed this to her. She read it and smiled. Punched in 'ellen' and handed it back to me. I typed in 'you look like an arts student. Am I right?' (she was reading a book) and handed the phone to her. She looked at it and giggled. We started talking from here.
As the train came up to my station I got her phone number and left.
Feels great to be back in it.
Jimi
Inner Game 2
This week has been pretty horrible so far. I cant seem to work out who I am anymore. Im starting to integrate all these new personality traits with myself but sometimes I just feel weird. How am I supposed to be myself if I don't know who I am?
My internal struggles coincided perfectly with this weeks topic. Inner Game 2.
I'm quite impressed actually. At the exact time when many guys in the class are coming up against these internal problems we have an Inner Game class. The Naturals really do know what they are doing. Shae was back for this class.
Tonight's class was all about giving us different models on how our minds work. We discussed the conscious mind and the subconscious and how they interact. The main message seemed to be....'make your subconscious mind your friend, learn how it works and it will serve you'.
There were some exercises for us to complete in the class. There was one in particular that helped me. It was an exercise that helped change negative beliefs.
Thats it for now
Jimi
My internal struggles coincided perfectly with this weeks topic. Inner Game 2.
I'm quite impressed actually. At the exact time when many guys in the class are coming up against these internal problems we have an Inner Game class. The Naturals really do know what they are doing. Shae was back for this class.
Tonight's class was all about giving us different models on how our minds work. We discussed the conscious mind and the subconscious and how they interact. The main message seemed to be....'make your subconscious mind your friend, learn how it works and it will serve you'.
There were some exercises for us to complete in the class. There was one in particular that helped me. It was an exercise that helped change negative beliefs.
Thats it for now
Jimi
Saturday, June 5, 2010
Style
"Style is your personality reflected through your clothes"
That was the essence of todays session run by Jess. She is the Naturals style coach.
We all know first impressions are very important. Having fabulous standout style and confidence is a very simple and effective way to attract women before you have even spoken.
Jess took us through some sexy stereotypes and showed us how we can model our style on theirs, taught us how to dress right for our body type and gave us hints on how to rebuild our wardrobes.
The best part of this session......the notes.
A comprehensive guide to style. They had everything that was discussed in class as well as a laundry list of tips and hints and recommendations of good clothing stores and hair salons. Something I will keep referring back to.
That was the essence of todays session run by Jess. She is the Naturals style coach.
We all know first impressions are very important. Having fabulous standout style and confidence is a very simple and effective way to attract women before you have even spoken.
Jess took us through some sexy stereotypes and showed us how we can model our style on theirs, taught us how to dress right for our body type and gave us hints on how to rebuild our wardrobes.
The best part of this session......the notes.
A comprehensive guide to style. They had everything that was discussed in class as well as a laundry list of tips and hints and recommendations of good clothing stores and hair salons. Something I will keep referring back to.
Saturday, May 29, 2010
The First Infield
Wow
What an amazing day.
The whole Masterclass met up on the steps of Federation square. We said our hellos and were quickly divided up into groups with each one going to a different part of the city.
First stop for me was Federation square.
Shae came over to me and pointed out a cute brunette sitting on the steps by herself.
"Theres your first one" he said.
The adrenaline was pumping....my heart racing.
Conversation went well. Found out she was a dancer, loved music and was a fitness junkie. She was too young though. I thanked her for the conversation and went back to the group.
Second approach was a group of two girls who seemed to be filming something. Shae threw me in there with them. Turns out the two of them were film students and were filming a documentary about how technology is taking over the world. While Shae 'distracted' one of them I began to talk to the other. She was the actress/presenter of the documentary. We flirted and had some fun and by the end of it I came away with her number.
The next stop was Tim who was on the steps of the State Library. We wandered into melbourne central and waited at the top of the escalators. From here Tim pointed out gorgeous women who walked past for us to approach. Each time I approached I was anxious, my head was spinning and my feet didn't want to move but I pushed through and went after the girls. Each time I learned something about myself. Tim pointed out how I could fix my body language and my intent and helped some guys with inner game issues.
Next stop LIAM!!!!
He waited for us in Bourke Street Mall. His speciality: pushing your social boundaries.
Our first exercise was to stand on top of one of the benches and do kung fu. Why? you might ask.......
No one cares. Thats why. As we did it....and yelled at the top of our voices no one bothered to turn and look. Just as when you approach....no one cares and if you screw up. The girl probably wont remember you the next day so why be afraid to approach?
What followed was a good hour of hilarity. From asking random girls to marry us to telling mums that their 'sister' walking next to them was cute and trying to pick them up. Learnt that anything was possible.
Something that really stuck with me was a line that Tim said at some point near the end of the day.
"Realize that this is not a game. You do not need to go out there 'gaming' to meet women. It should become part of your life, so that when you see that amazing woman you go right over to her and talk to her." Well....it was something along those lines, but the basic point of it was that you should be the kind of guy who takes his life into his own hands. (Almost) Any time you see a gorgeous woman is a good time to go say 'hi' to her.
What an amazing day.
The whole Masterclass met up on the steps of Federation square. We said our hellos and were quickly divided up into groups with each one going to a different part of the city.
First stop for me was Federation square.
Shae came over to me and pointed out a cute brunette sitting on the steps by herself.
"Theres your first one" he said.
The adrenaline was pumping....my heart racing.
Conversation went well. Found out she was a dancer, loved music and was a fitness junkie. She was too young though. I thanked her for the conversation and went back to the group.
Second approach was a group of two girls who seemed to be filming something. Shae threw me in there with them. Turns out the two of them were film students and were filming a documentary about how technology is taking over the world. While Shae 'distracted' one of them I began to talk to the other. She was the actress/presenter of the documentary. We flirted and had some fun and by the end of it I came away with her number.
The next stop was Tim who was on the steps of the State Library. We wandered into melbourne central and waited at the top of the escalators. From here Tim pointed out gorgeous women who walked past for us to approach. Each time I approached I was anxious, my head was spinning and my feet didn't want to move but I pushed through and went after the girls. Each time I learned something about myself. Tim pointed out how I could fix my body language and my intent and helped some guys with inner game issues.
Next stop LIAM!!!!
He waited for us in Bourke Street Mall. His speciality: pushing your social boundaries.
Our first exercise was to stand on top of one of the benches and do kung fu. Why? you might ask.......
No one cares. Thats why. As we did it....and yelled at the top of our voices no one bothered to turn and look. Just as when you approach....no one cares and if you screw up. The girl probably wont remember you the next day so why be afraid to approach?
What followed was a good hour of hilarity. From asking random girls to marry us to telling mums that their 'sister' walking next to them was cute and trying to pick them up. Learnt that anything was possible.
Something that really stuck with me was a line that Tim said at some point near the end of the day.
"Realize that this is not a game. You do not need to go out there 'gaming' to meet women. It should become part of your life, so that when you see that amazing woman you go right over to her and talk to her." Well....it was something along those lines, but the basic point of it was that you should be the kind of guy who takes his life into his own hands. (Almost) Any time you see a gorgeous woman is a good time to go say 'hi' to her.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Body Landuage and Touch Escalation
This week was split up into two sections.
The first was run by James. He covered the basics of body language.
It is all about modelling "Alpha male" body language.
Smiling, good eye contact, relaxed but upright posture and so on.
What I found interesting was the fact that women take in a lot of information from your body language. Before any words come out of your mouth a girl's mind has already passed judgement on you based on your body language.
Think about it......
Would you feel more comfortable around a person who was slouched over, had poor eye contact and fidgeted......or a person who stood upright, maintained good eye contact and moved slowly and confidently?
And you have not even listened to what they have to say.
In my opinion body language is really important at night, in the bars and clubs of Melbourne. Why?
With the music so loud and distractions everywhere it is very hard to communicate through words. It is here where body language becomes really important.
The second section was run by Tim.
He covered touch.
In a nutshell.....women want to be touched by men they like, but there is a right way and a wrong way to do this.
He also covered escalation and kissing.
The first was run by James. He covered the basics of body language.
It is all about modelling "Alpha male" body language.
Smiling, good eye contact, relaxed but upright posture and so on.
What I found interesting was the fact that women take in a lot of information from your body language. Before any words come out of your mouth a girl's mind has already passed judgement on you based on your body language.
Think about it......
Would you feel more comfortable around a person who was slouched over, had poor eye contact and fidgeted......or a person who stood upright, maintained good eye contact and moved slowly and confidently?
And you have not even listened to what they have to say.
In my opinion body language is really important at night, in the bars and clubs of Melbourne. Why?
With the music so loud and distractions everywhere it is very hard to communicate through words. It is here where body language becomes really important.
The second section was run by Tim.
He covered touch.
In a nutshell.....women want to be touched by men they like, but there is a right way and a wrong way to do this.
He also covered escalation and kissing.
Success
Finally......
My best interaction to date.
Approached a cute blonde on the steps of the State Library. Got her number and set up a date with her.
Ha!!!
My best interaction to date.
Approached a cute blonde on the steps of the State Library. Got her number and set up a date with her.
Ha!!!
A bad week
This week has been horrible.....
All my approaches in the day were terrible. I found starting conversations really hard.
Definately not a good week.
One of the best things about the masterclass is the fact that the coaches are willing to offer individual help to each student. I spoke with James and Shae about my week. They broke down and analysed my approaches and gave me some hints on how I should approach and the mindsets I should have.
Cant wait to get out there again.
All my approaches in the day were terrible. I found starting conversations really hard.
Definately not a good week.
One of the best things about the masterclass is the fact that the coaches are willing to offer individual help to each student. I spoke with James and Shae about my week. They broke down and analysed my approaches and gave me some hints on how I should approach and the mindsets I should have.
Cant wait to get out there again.
Inner Game: The glue that holds it together
This weeks session was on Inner Game.
This is really what holds it all together. All the fancy lines and techniques in the world will not work if you do not truly believe in yourself and believe that you deserve quality women.
Inner Game is all about
*Personal Power
*Internal Value
*Self Image
We learnt about meditation, expanding comfort zones and building value in your character.
Its quite hard to explain exactly what was covered through a blog as I do not believe that readers will be able to fully understand what went on.
Basically what happened is we were given a set of ideas and tools that we could use to change our outlook on life.
Thats it for now.
Jimi
This is really what holds it all together. All the fancy lines and techniques in the world will not work if you do not truly believe in yourself and believe that you deserve quality women.
Inner Game is all about
*Personal Power
*Internal Value
*Self Image
We learnt about meditation, expanding comfort zones and building value in your character.
Its quite hard to explain exactly what was covered through a blog as I do not believe that readers will be able to fully understand what went on.
Basically what happened is we were given a set of ideas and tools that we could use to change our outlook on life.
Thats it for now.
Jimi
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Our folders
Monday, May 10, 2010
Newbies night: The cute blonde and the horny french guy
Newbies night is run by the Melbourne Lair every few months. It gives new members a chance to meet others and have a good time as well as meet some gorgeous women.
There were almost 60 or so guys there. We spilt up into groups and hit various parts of Melbourne.
My group headed out into the city.
It started off really bad. First stop was spice market. Was full of older people (30-45 year olds). Was horrible. Then we bounced to silk road which was similar. Dont know what was up the other night. It seemed the whole of melbourne was full of older people. Then as a last resort we went to transport. Same story here.
This sucked....so me and one of the guys there decided to go back to spice market as we had passouts.
FINALLY!!! a decent crowd. Still had a fair few older people but this time round there were some younger ones.
Opened a few sets here and there...went alright....nothing serious.
Then I saw this cute blonde sitting by herself. Walked over and said hi. She was from Sydney and was in Melbourne for the weekend. Conversation went well. Since we were near an isle the bouncer came and told us to move along.
I grabbed her hand and led her to a quieter bit of spice market (the couches). Talked here with her and had quite a bit of good eye contact going. Was building it up for a kiss.....closing distance between me and her....then a friend of hers came and pulled her to the dance floor.
Argh!!!
As I was walkin around I saw her again but this time there was this guy chatting her up. I thought to myself....no way shes mine.
So I interrupter them. Chatted to the blonde for a while. Then turned my attention to the guy. He seemed like a massive douchebag. He was wearing sunnies, had a cigar (not lit) and had a strong french accent.
Then I turned my attention back to the blonde. We were getting closer together and there was a fair bit of kino going on between us but the french guy kept interrupting.
Soon the guy and myself were in a conversation again.
This is when stuff started to get weird.
He just casually mentioned to me. "How about the three of us go back to my room?"
I was like "what do you mean?"
He looked at me and taped his nose "you know what I mean. The three of us....my room....bang, bang, bang."
I was like WTF!!!!! Theres this crazy french guy, probably in his 30's, looks like a douchebag, wears sunnies indoors and carries cigars......and he's asking me to have a threesome.
WTF!!!
I replied "sorry mate, I dont swing that way...its not my kinda thing"
He replied "thats ok....i wont touch you and you wont touch me"
He tried again a few more times.
Again I rejected him....he got the message..finally..phew!!
The blonde thought it was hilarious.
Back with the blonde. (The french guy figured he had little chance with her now so he left)
It was getting late, her friends were around us and I knew the kiss close wasnt on so I went for a number.
"Hey, you're fun, put your number in and we'll have some adventures together"
She then said "I can't, I've got a boyfriend"
I replied "Well he's gonna have to learn to share" and again went for the number. She laughed but still refused to give me a number.
I explained (with a cheeky grin on my face) "Im like that pair of shoes that you only wear once in a while. It'll be fine."
Again she laughed, told me I was charming but still didn't give me her number.
She was a lot of fun so I continued talking with her.
She gave me a good 10 minutes of solid conversation. She was a quality girl.
At 2am the place was closing down so I said bye kissed her on the cheek and left.
There were almost 60 or so guys there. We spilt up into groups and hit various parts of Melbourne.
My group headed out into the city.
It started off really bad. First stop was spice market. Was full of older people (30-45 year olds). Was horrible. Then we bounced to silk road which was similar. Dont know what was up the other night. It seemed the whole of melbourne was full of older people. Then as a last resort we went to transport. Same story here.
This sucked....so me and one of the guys there decided to go back to spice market as we had passouts.
FINALLY!!! a decent crowd. Still had a fair few older people but this time round there were some younger ones.
Opened a few sets here and there...went alright....nothing serious.
Then I saw this cute blonde sitting by herself. Walked over and said hi. She was from Sydney and was in Melbourne for the weekend. Conversation went well. Since we were near an isle the bouncer came and told us to move along.
I grabbed her hand and led her to a quieter bit of spice market (the couches). Talked here with her and had quite a bit of good eye contact going. Was building it up for a kiss.....closing distance between me and her....then a friend of hers came and pulled her to the dance floor.
Argh!!!
As I was walkin around I saw her again but this time there was this guy chatting her up. I thought to myself....no way shes mine.
So I interrupter them. Chatted to the blonde for a while. Then turned my attention to the guy. He seemed like a massive douchebag. He was wearing sunnies, had a cigar (not lit) and had a strong french accent.
Then I turned my attention back to the blonde. We were getting closer together and there was a fair bit of kino going on between us but the french guy kept interrupting.
Soon the guy and myself were in a conversation again.
This is when stuff started to get weird.
He just casually mentioned to me. "How about the three of us go back to my room?"
I was like "what do you mean?"
He looked at me and taped his nose "you know what I mean. The three of us....my room....bang, bang, bang."
I was like WTF!!!!! Theres this crazy french guy, probably in his 30's, looks like a douchebag, wears sunnies indoors and carries cigars......and he's asking me to have a threesome.
WTF!!!
I replied "sorry mate, I dont swing that way...its not my kinda thing"
He replied "thats ok....i wont touch you and you wont touch me"
He tried again a few more times.
Again I rejected him....he got the message..finally..phew!!
The blonde thought it was hilarious.
Back with the blonde. (The french guy figured he had little chance with her now so he left)
It was getting late, her friends were around us and I knew the kiss close wasnt on so I went for a number.
"Hey, you're fun, put your number in and we'll have some adventures together"
She then said "I can't, I've got a boyfriend"
I replied "Well he's gonna have to learn to share" and again went for the number. She laughed but still refused to give me a number.
I explained (with a cheeky grin on my face) "Im like that pair of shoes that you only wear once in a while. It'll be fine."
Again she laughed, told me I was charming but still didn't give me her number.
She was a lot of fun so I continued talking with her.
She gave me a good 10 minutes of solid conversation. She was a quality girl.
At 2am the place was closing down so I said bye kissed her on the cheek and left.
Friday, May 7, 2010
The next installment
SEDUCTION 1
Attraction is all about emotional impact. That was probably the most important thing I learnt from this session. Cars, money and value don't matter as much as we're lead to believe. I must admit.....I used to be one of those value obsessed people. After reading "the Game" I was convinced that only the guys who displayed high value or were seen as the "Alpha male" got the girls. Yes this is true to some extent but the emotional impact you make on a girl is far more important.
This session was run by James Marshall and Tim Stubbs.
James is a pretty laid back kind of guy who's been involved with this stuff for 10 years or so. He explained the main concepts and gave us frameworks for good conversation.
Tim on the other hand was full of energy, jumping around and explaining his ideas. He went through a few elements of seduction as well as number closing.
Attraction is all about emotional impact. That was probably the most important thing I learnt from this session. Cars, money and value don't matter as much as we're lead to believe. I must admit.....I used to be one of those value obsessed people. After reading "the Game" I was convinced that only the guys who displayed high value or were seen as the "Alpha male" got the girls. Yes this is true to some extent but the emotional impact you make on a girl is far more important.
This session was run by James Marshall and Tim Stubbs.
James is a pretty laid back kind of guy who's been involved with this stuff for 10 years or so. He explained the main concepts and gave us frameworks for good conversation.
Tim on the other hand was full of energy, jumping around and explaining his ideas. He went through a few elements of seduction as well as number closing.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
The First Session
The Intro, Welcoming Change and Setting goals
wow.....that was full on. Four hours of information poured into me. Let me explain...
First I met the other guys there. They were all really great blokes. All of them were friendly and were there for similar reasons to me. To change their life.
Once we got started we were put into groups of two or three. The guys we were put with were our 'wings'. Now before you jump to any conclusions based on your knowledge of the book 'the game' or any other 'pua' material out there these wings were different. (Well thats how I saw them anyway) Our wings were not there just to help us chat up girls or 'take the ugly one so we could get the hotter one'. No. They were people we could rely on. People we could have a chat to about anything and people who would be part of our journeys over the next 12 weeks.
Then the real stuff began.....
Shae (a coach with the naturals) took us through some self evaluation exercises, helped us set goals and explained to us the changes we could make as the course progressed.
This entire session was about opening us up and making us ready for change.
A lot of stuff to do with 'Inner game' for those that understand what that means.
Shae is a great bloke. Really approachable and friendly. His speciality is Inner Game. He's the go to guy to sort out those inner issues you have. Self image, confidence and whatever else....he's your man. He has been doing this stuff for over a decade.
Something that really stuck out to me was a quote that Shae pointed out.
"What the thinker thinks, the prover proves." or something along those lines.
I'll let you think about that and how it relates to your own life.
We were then told to look at our workbooks. Inside were a list of weekly missions that we had to complete (There was a points system in play. The more missions you did the more points you got. I can see this turning into some sort of competition between the guys as the class goes on. Will be lots of fun) and a small weekly evaluation and debrief we had to fill out. This is actually some homework I'm going to enjoy doing. Ha!
By the end of thiss class, I had this image of the guy I'd like to be in my mind. Over the next 12 weeks I'm going to be trying to make that guy real.
I will be meeting up with my wings on tuesday to complete some of these missions.
Thats it for today.....
Till next time.
Jimi
wow.....that was full on. Four hours of information poured into me. Let me explain...
First I met the other guys there. They were all really great blokes. All of them were friendly and were there for similar reasons to me. To change their life.
Once we got started we were put into groups of two or three. The guys we were put with were our 'wings'. Now before you jump to any conclusions based on your knowledge of the book 'the game' or any other 'pua' material out there these wings were different. (Well thats how I saw them anyway) Our wings were not there just to help us chat up girls or 'take the ugly one so we could get the hotter one'. No. They were people we could rely on. People we could have a chat to about anything and people who would be part of our journeys over the next 12 weeks.
Then the real stuff began.....
Shae (a coach with the naturals) took us through some self evaluation exercises, helped us set goals and explained to us the changes we could make as the course progressed.
This entire session was about opening us up and making us ready for change.
A lot of stuff to do with 'Inner game' for those that understand what that means.
Shae is a great bloke. Really approachable and friendly. His speciality is Inner Game. He's the go to guy to sort out those inner issues you have. Self image, confidence and whatever else....he's your man. He has been doing this stuff for over a decade.
Something that really stuck out to me was a quote that Shae pointed out.
"What the thinker thinks, the prover proves." or something along those lines.
I'll let you think about that and how it relates to your own life.
We were then told to look at our workbooks. Inside were a list of weekly missions that we had to complete (There was a points system in play. The more missions you did the more points you got. I can see this turning into some sort of competition between the guys as the class goes on. Will be lots of fun) and a small weekly evaluation and debrief we had to fill out. This is actually some homework I'm going to enjoy doing. Ha!
By the end of thiss class, I had this image of the guy I'd like to be in my mind. Over the next 12 weeks I'm going to be trying to make that guy real.
I will be meeting up with my wings on tuesday to complete some of these missions.
Thats it for today.....
Till next time.
Jimi
Before it Begins
Hey guys
Jimi here.
Just recieved word that I will be part of the next Masterclass run by The Natural Lifestyles.
Can't wait for it to begin.
What I am going to do is a 12 week course that will hopefully reprogram my life. Its about giving my life direction so that I can live that life I've always wanted.
I would like to have gorgeous women in my life.
I would like to have an awesome career
I would like to have a vibrant and exciting social life.
I realise that I probably wont have these things at the end of the 12 weeks, but I hope to be put on a path to achieving them in the near future.
I should probably start with a quick rundown of where I am at right now.
Im 19, pretty new to the seduction community, a uni student, from an average middle class family and I live with my parents at the moment. I come from a very conservative family and even went to an all boys catholic school (read: had little or no contact with girls between the ages of 13 and 18).
I have only kissed two girls....ever, only after I had turned 18, and have never been in a relationship. Two things that I hope to change.
Before you all go off and feel sorry for me there are a few other things you should know.
I think im a pretty decent looking guy. I enjoy sport and keeping fit and love playing guitar. Im somewhat confident and love meeting new people. So im not completely a lost case.
So it begins....12 weeks of pushing myself to have that awesome life i've always wanted.
Jimi here.
Just recieved word that I will be part of the next Masterclass run by The Natural Lifestyles.
Can't wait for it to begin.
What I am going to do is a 12 week course that will hopefully reprogram my life. Its about giving my life direction so that I can live that life I've always wanted.
I would like to have gorgeous women in my life.
I would like to have an awesome career
I would like to have a vibrant and exciting social life.
I realise that I probably wont have these things at the end of the 12 weeks, but I hope to be put on a path to achieving them in the near future.
I should probably start with a quick rundown of where I am at right now.
Im 19, pretty new to the seduction community, a uni student, from an average middle class family and I live with my parents at the moment. I come from a very conservative family and even went to an all boys catholic school (read: had little or no contact with girls between the ages of 13 and 18).
I have only kissed two girls....ever, only after I had turned 18, and have never been in a relationship. Two things that I hope to change.
Before you all go off and feel sorry for me there are a few other things you should know.
I think im a pretty decent looking guy. I enjoy sport and keeping fit and love playing guitar. Im somewhat confident and love meeting new people. So im not completely a lost case.
So it begins....12 weeks of pushing myself to have that awesome life i've always wanted.
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